Now once you identify which one each of your parents were, you will find which one you became based on how they were to you and how you responded to them.

After you complete the list start answering the questions, Don’t worry about getting it right the first time, Once you complete the questions go back and re read the answers again to make sure  you didn’t leave anything out,. A lot of the time that is when things forgotten pop up, If they do, Go back and add or modify your answer. Trust me things will pop up. I can’t stress how important a journal is to this, I know for me, when I started looking at my family, I thought I knew all of it, then while reading what I wrote, things I had forgotten long ago would pop up and change things. So start a journal or you will go in circles because you think you have it all. When you finish with your mother, start the list for your father. 

The first step in finding out who you are, and why you’re here, starts with you truly understanding yourself, and how you got where you are now. I will guide you through this entire process so it won’t seem too overwhelming. To find your true self and your true purpose in this life you must understand how you got to where you are now and why you are the way you are. Where it all came from and where is it Going. This is the starting point, be ready to rip open your life and see what’s going on and why it is the way it is. Now if you look at your life like a novel and look at the chapter you’re in right now, you will not be Able to find your true self there, nor understand you. You must go back to the beginning of the book and re read t and understand all the characters and what roles they played in getting you where you are right now. You will see that there is no other place you could be but where you are right now. Let’s start with your parents, and how were they to you, How did they communicate to you, what were their outlooks on life, what did they believe, what were their dreams Etc. I strongly recommend starting a journal now, it will make life that much easier, and you can look back at what you have written so far if something forgotten is triggered, plus writing is a form of release. Start by making a list for each parent, One for your mother and one for your father, if you didn’t have your birth parents or you lost one or both, use the people that were around you the most that helped raise you.

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