Sunday, February 16, 2014
Next step
Once you’re finished with both lists there are things to look
for, there are four control dramas I mentioned each of my parent’s dramas.
People use these to force your attention on them thus draining your energy.
1.
Intimidator: these are the worst; they use threats and anger
directed at you, always yelling at you. This forces you to look at them and
focus your attention on them thus sending all your energy their way.
2. Interrogator: These use constant ridicule and always
question you on everything you’re doing or plan to do. Always in
your face belittling you mocking your dreams.
3. Aloof: These hide and avoid, forcing you to focus your
attention on them and try to find out
what’s wrong.
4. Poor me: These feel like nobody appreciates what they do
they are just here for everyone else, they
don’t
matter they are unimportant.
Now once you identify which one each of your
parents were, you will find which one you became based on how they were to you
and how you responded to them.
Once you discover your control drama acknowledge it by saying
it out loud. I was aloof so I said it out loud, I am aloof! This is an instant
shift you will feel, when I did it all of a sudden I just began talking, words
just flowing out, I was amazed I was always quiet, never talking to anyone
unless they were talking to me and I was short with my answers, but there I was
a chatterbox. This was one of the first shifts in my awareness, after
discovering and announcing I was aloof to the universe I had a shift, besides
starting to talk, I could now identify everybody else’s drama, it was cool
looking at people interacting and knowing exactly what they are doing. I know
you will experience something similar. It really was an instant shift that changed
how I looked at everything.
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